rue • 24th sept • malaysian • bpd & did

I assume you found this carrd on my spam account @kaorue_ (insta) so this carrd is specifically for it

• my account is mostly SFW, but I might occasionally joke about or post NSFW art. my friends will joke about it too sometimes
• I often use they/them when referring to people. please let me know if that makes you uncomfortable.
• there may be mentions of self-harm, medication and intrusive/suicidal thoughts.
• I have BPD, so my mood can shift suddenly and I struggle with regulating it
• I deal with intense thoughts sometimes about once a week they get really overwhelming.
• I have DID and I'm a system myself, I switch fronting with my protective alter, Rin to protect myself from getting BPD trigger worsened

• I block instantly if anyone that isn't following me but watching my stories till the end — please dm my main or any of my mutuals to let me know if you'd like me to unblock you
• seeing REAL gore or blood makes me tremble. it's best to put trigger warning
• I'll only respond to DMs when I feel like it
• I can block or unfollow anyone to curate my timeline. usually i just mute or hide instead.
• my account is fub-free (feel free to unfollow or block) — if you don’t like how i act or what i post, just unfollow/block. no need to dm to break mutuals.
• I won't reply to short DMs like "hi" unless you state what you want
• please use tone indicators if you're being sarcastic
• I don't instantly befriend strangers. if we're mutuals, we can try if we have enough similarities in interest
• don't force your headcanons on me
• if we don't vibe, you're probably muted or hidden from my stories lol. it's just my way of setting boundaries. I don't feel comfortable sharing my personal life with you anymore. feel free to unfollow or dm me if you think it's a mistake, but once I hide my stories from someone, I usually don't change it back.
• please be mindful of things you say if it might be triggering for me
• I get extremely uncomfortable if my triggers are mentioned, especially repeatedly. my only option is to mute and avoid
• please be considerate with what you say to me, especially nsfw and dark jokes. I can tolerate some, but if it's too much, it becomes triggering and makes me uncomfortable.
• I tend to seperate art from artists HOWEVER I won't draw art request/commission of a character that came from a problematic media or made by a problematic person. this also applies to character that majority of their fans considered as 'problematic' as I avoid to cater to those kinds of audience
• I cope by removing, reducing, minimize things like posts, follower/following count, app and etc, let me know if I you think I accidentally removed you

no one really cares about these, but here's my stance anyway:
• basic DNI criteria (transphobic, racist, ableist, sexists, homophobic)
• trump & israel supporters
• anyone who's muslimphobic
• fandom/moral police
• if you have a history of witch hunting someone/publicly calling someone out
• any kind of body shaming
• anyone I've had past drama with or those who still choose to support them even after knowing what they did to me
• proshippers/darkshippers — specifically lolicons/shotacons, incestuous or any ship that includes that. if you actively engage with that content, I will avoid you
• if you engages with a lot of discourse

socials (other than that, it's not me! or it's just super inactive with 0 posts):

highlighted: main carrd • art acc insta • spam acc • art acc twitter • toyhouse
other: youtube • deviantart • art fight • strawpage• poipiku • spotify

mainly active on Instagram